Ladies, you can have a better relationship with you man, your significant other, and the way to 
do it is easy and fun. All you have to do is understand how your man thinks. I don't mean his decision making processes, I mean his fantasies, and his desires. Men mostly live their sexual lives within their own heads and any woman who can find a way in will have cartblanche with her mans sexual moods. In this article, I will let you in on a secret. What secret you may ask? Well, being a man, I happen to know a few things about men. How we think and what we really want. I'm willing to impart this information to you but you must use you new knowledge
fairly, as you may want to abuse your new control over your mate to serve evil purpose. By evil purposes, I mean shopping. Study the top ten fantasies of men below and then go to work, literally, and remember play fair, and have fun. WARNING!! Some of these fantasies are for the strong of heart as others are specifically for the wild.
Also, be safe, use protection such as condoms and other sexual paraphanalia.
do it is easy and fun. All you have to do is understand how your man thinks. I don't mean his decision making processes, I mean his fantasies, and his desires. Men mostly live their sexual lives within their own heads and any woman who can find a way in will have cartblanche with her mans sexual moods. In this article, I will let you in on a secret. What secret you may ask? Well, being a man, I happen to know a few things about men. How we think and what we really want. I'm willing to impart this information to you but you must use you new knowledge
fairly, as you may want to abuse your new control over your mate to serve evil purpose. By evil purposes, I mean shopping. Study the top ten fantasies of men below and then go to work, literally, and remember play fair, and have fun. WARNING!! Some of these fantasies are for the strong of heart as others are specifically for the wild.Also, be safe, use protection such as condoms and other sexual paraphanalia.
Fantasy # 10
Sex with another man.
Whether they admit it or not, many men want to be involved with other men. This doesn't always include sex but it is always sexual in nature. If your man has this fantasy don't be alarmed, it doesn't necessarily mean that he is gay. He may just want to experiment or want you to experiment with him.
Tip: this is a touchy subject for men, be mindful of what type of relationship you are in and what type of man you have. And furthermore, NEVER put your man down or slander him for admitting the truth to you.
Fantasy # 9
Sexual Ravaging.
Men are men, and as such we want to be in control. Many men daydream and fantasize about having complete sexual control of a woman, just short of rape, but not much. This can also work in reverse. Ravage your man and make him submit, we men sometimes like to give up control and be submissive, sometimes. Different outfits, such as leather chaps, can help get you in the mood for this fantasy.
Fantasy # 8
Bondage.
Bondage can work by itself but works best with fantasy # 9. Let your man tie you up or down according to your preferences. Make sure that your man is trustworthy because you will be totally under his control. Men want to tie you up for real, whereas they only want to be tied up so they can easily ge
Fantasy # 7
Anal Sex.
I'm sorry to say this ladies but men are sick puppies. We not only like to be in control, we also like to degrade to a degree. The ultimate degradation is anal sex. If you don't have a problem with this, then oil the hinges on that back door and let your man go to work. He will love you so much the better for it. Some men swear that they don't like this form of intercourse. If your man is one of those, let him be. Most likely he is afraid of the beast inside himself. Be sure to stock up on plenty of KY-Jelly, anal stimulators.
Tip: Men, make sure that your woman is completely relaxed, and totally trusts you before you even attempt this. She has to know that you will not hurt her.
Fantasy # 6
Masturbation.
Who doesn't like masturbation? I would wager that not too many people would turn down an offer to be masturbated by their partner, men especially. Offer to touch you man where it counts and rest assured, if you get him in the mood he will reciprocate. Regular petroleum jelly works wonders in this area.
Fantasy # 5
Voyeurism and Exhibitionism.
There is the freak in every man. This is a good thing for you, ladies. Allow your man to live out his "Peeping Tom" fantasies without the stigmatism of being thought of as a pervert. Expressively show your affection when he least expects it, making sure you have an audience. If he is a sexually mentally healthy male, he will blush but he will enjoy it too. My personal kit includes, a pair of binoculars, a digital camera, and a construction outfit, for home use only. Do not violate anyone's privacy who hasn't given consent.
Fantasy # 4
Sex with more than one woman.
How many of you didn't know that this one was coming? Even though your man may be dedicated to only you, he may still fantasize about other women. Here is the catch, he wants the other women to be with the both of you. If you think your relationship can stand up to it and you have someone you can trust, why not give it a try.
Tip: Ladies this is something made specifically for the strong of heart unless you are not committed to your partner of choice.
If you do not believe that both of you will enjoy an act such as this, than you should not do it. If your man persist with fantasy while you decline, someone may want to seek counseling to help them over the hump.
Fantasy # 3
Oral Sex.
Put your money where your mouth is. It is a sure bet that your man will love oral sex, either on him or him on you. Either way, everyone wins. But don't stop there, this is only the "opening", to "bigger" and better things. Think, lip gloss, ice, and whatever you can find around the house to make the oral experience more lip smacking good.
Tip: Women, just before performing oral sex on your man, you should try gargling with a minty mouth wash, spit but don't rinse.
Fantasy # 2
Having sex with a past partner.Don't be offended if your partner tells you that he sometimes has fantasies about his past partners. This can work to your benefit. By play acting, or role playing, you can be those past loves for him, in way, without worrying about him actually being with them.
Some women will not agree with this, and some women will. Remember, do what fits you and your partner. Only do what the both of you will be comfortable with. This is only a suggestion, come up with some ideas of your own. If you want an honest relationship, you should find a way to deal with this. It is after all a top fantasy of most men.
Fantasy # 1
Fantasies about current partner.
Surprise, surprise. You didn't think that you would be in the list? Your man loves you or at the least desires you a lot. Why wouldn't he have fantasies about you. Believe me, your man thinks plenty about you, what he has done with you and what he wants to do with and to you in the future. The future could be the next second, just go through this list with him and try as many of these fantasies as you are both comfortable with.
These fantasies are not all inclusive of men and the suggestions in this article are just that, suggestions and nothing more. Enjoy the adventure!
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